Dr. Camlove or: How I Learned to Stop Watching Porn and Love Live Cams

My name is Paul and I love live cams.

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It hasn't always been that way though. I have been watching online porn since I was in my teens - and not to date myself here - but there weren't really any live sex cam sites around at the time (I believe iFriends was one of the first ones and that was around 1999). Also, if any of you remember the early days of live cams you'll recall that it was exciting, but the quality was awful (it didn't help that many of us were still on dial-up internet)

That being said, it wasn't until about 5 years ago that I really started to experience live cams. And by “experience,“ I don't mean watching some crappy free live feeds posted as a bonus in your good old cookie-cutter paysite members’ area. Been there - done that! I mean truly immersing myself into the experience, partly out of curiosity as to what would make some men give tip a girl hundreds of dollars in a single shot, but mostly to interact live with the type of women I loved having in my porn collection.

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And as I spent more and more time browsing live cam sites and seeing what they all offered, I came to realize that I'm the kind of person who enjoys intimate one-on-one private experiences with a cam girl. While sites like MyFreeCams is certainly great for budget-conscious users - and I have definitely spent some great times on them - they’re no substitute for my desire for intimacy, control and exclusivity in a cam show.

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It's kind of like going to a strip club: I was never the guy who got on the stage or threw money at the girls so that the whole club could watch her pick it up (to me, that's kind of what MyFreeCams is like). What I really enjoyed was looking around, watching the girls dance and then picking one girl to take into a private booth, away from prying eyes where I could sit back and have her all to myself.

And if we bring the metaphor back to live cam sites, when you have the model all to yourself you get to direct the show. Tell her what you want to see and how you want to see it and most of the time your wish will be her command - just be polite, don't be a jerk and maybe ask her in the free chat what she does and doesn't do in private so you know before you head in there.

Now, I will say that the vast majority of my porn collection is hardcore rather than solo. But translating that to live cams is a little harder. It's a bit more difficult to find a couple on cam who you want to watch have sex. But it definitely can be done and I have had some very good couples cam experiences.

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For lovers of fetish and kink, cam girls present infinite possibilities - you just have to find the right girl for the right kind of action! And most sites have at least a basic search and filters to help you narrow down your search and find that perfect kinky chick. Lots of girls do anal (one of my favorites), plenty of women are ready to dominate you and provide some hot JOI if that’s your thing. Goth babes, emo chicks, bondage gear, BBWs, submissives… they’re all out there for you to enjoy and you can find some of those performers on Slut Roulette, among others.

Some girls even squirt - and while I have had to deal with really weak squirters who also take a ton of time to finally eek out a little liquid, I have also found a few girls who are like Old Faithful with how much and how well they can make themselves squirt. And when I find babes like that - who really provide the service I desire - I make sure to remember them and visit them often and tip them.

I also feel good knowing that many of the cam girls are, in a sense, independent business operators and they get a much larger percentage of the money I spend than they would if they were acting in a porn film. Sure, there are many underpaid studio girls on cam sites, but, in my opinion, they're better off in a studio. Regardless, if she's a studio girl or work-from-home model, I love spoiling my favorites by buying them gifts and tipping. It's for a good cause! (I like to believe that.)

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Fresh content in porn is difficult to find, especially nowadays. Tube sites have a ton of free videos, but most of them are of crappy quality. I don't mind paying for porn, but then I'm stuck with mainly the same type of hardcore content and the same pornstars appearing in scene after scene where I have no control over the action. Cam sites have tens of thousands of performers, like Rabbits Cams for instance, with dozens of new ones appearing every day offering much appreciated variety and freshness. Although, many guys fall for one particular model and that may leave them wanting more when she disappears. And most of them do eventually.

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I often find myself really enjoying a certain angle and/or position in a porn movie only to have the camera angle change and the performers switch positions. Whereas with a live cam girl, if she’s in a perfect position for my pleasure I just tell her to stay like that and keep doing what she’s doing. I don't have to worry about it changing in 30 seconds and me losing the mood.

Now, the question some of you are asking is, Have I ever hooked up with a cam girl in real life? I'll be honest with you: yes. Okay, now I'll be honest with you: no! Yes, some cam chicks actually escort too and are quite open to the idea (of course I have made inquiries, but have never followed up on it). But most of them prefer to keep the interactions virtual, be it for their security and privacy, or just because the men tend to remain more interested while the fantasy is not realized.

So, have I given up on recorded porn altogether? No, of course not. I still watch porn now and then. Sometimes I'm horny at odd times of the day and my favorite cam girls aren't around. Or maybe I just need to “take care of myself“ really quickly or my internet is down and I can only access my saved collection. So, yes, it does happen, but live cams are definitely where I fulfill most of my sexual desires and fantasies these days. And with the amount of awesome girls are out there and how good the cams and the technology is these days, I really don't see myself ever going back.

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