10 Tips For Starting a Fulfilling Live Cam Relationship

10 Tips For Starting a Fulfilling Live Cam Relationship

Now that you’ve checked out those first few articles, it’s time to move to the next big step: starting an actual relationship with a cam girl! Let the fun begin!

Believe it or not, it’s possible to have a fulfilling relationship with a cam girl. Have you ever noticed how some users get preferential treatment? The babes might even refer to them on a first name basis. Well, that’s because they’ve developed a relationship. And it’s not uncommon for those users to receive a big chunk of the girl’s attention. Don’t worry, achieving this level of friendship is easy. Just follow my tips and you’ll be on your way.

1. Be Positive & Have Fun

Yes, this seems like an obvious first step, but it’s often one we forget. Go in with the frame of mind that everyone is there to enjoy themselves. The girls have chosen to get naked and put on a live show in no small part because they think it’s pleasurable and exciting for both of you. So say hi, crack jokes and be friendly. Performers quickly pick up on someone with a genuine attitude. Be true to yourself and open about your desires and never be ashamed to talk about the things that interest you.

2. Show Her Respect

What woman doesn’t want to be wined and dined? Of course, you won’t be able to literally do it via webcam, but you can certainly mimic the experience by showing her respect. For example, many girls have limits. You might be chatting with a babe who, despite being open-minded, is simply uninterested in anal play. One simple way to respect her choice is by NOT asking her to perform those acts.

3. Talk to Her About Her Day

There’s nothing girls hate more than when someone starts barking commands at them. It’s rude and chances are she’ll either ignore you or flat out block you. The best thing you can do to get her attention is to say hello, introduce yourself and ask her how her day is going. Then you can get a little more personal by asking about her likes and dislikes. If at that point you decide to pay her a compliment or ask her to do something, she’ll be much more receptive.

4. Complement Things Other Than Her Appearance

Cam performers are called hot, sexy, cute, pretty, etc., all the time. Even if it’s true, they hear it a hundred times a day and it can get old fast. So try commenting on other things, like her clothes, her eyes or even her taste in music. Trust me, she’ll appreciate that you noticed something other than her physical appearance. Plus, it makes you stand out above the crowd and way more memorable.

5. Start a Sexual Relationship When You’re Ready

After you’ve spent time going through those first few steps, don’t be afraid to jump into the sexual part of your relationship. By now, she’ll probably have an idea of what you like and you’ll probably know what to expect from her private shows, so you can jump in and start having fun. She’ll be able to specifically tailor her performance to your preferences and you won’t waste any time getting things started.

6. Show Your Appreciation With a Tip

Ever hear the expression, “Actions speak louder than words?” Well, this can be applied to the action of tipping. By giving a model you’re in a friendly relationship with a tip, it tells her that you appreciate what she does. Yes, she genuinely loves chatting with you, but at the end of the day, you have to remember that this is her job and, in many cases, her only source of income.

I find it helps to pretend that you’re on a date. Think about what that usually entails. You pay for dinner, you buy her drinks, maybe bring her flowers or a little gift, etc. Tipping can and should be looked at in the same way.

In a nutshell….
Tips = happy cam girls
Happy cam girls = horny cam girls
Horny cam girls = sexy live shows!

7. Visit Her Room Often

What’s the point of putting in the effort to build a long-lasting sex cam relationship if you don’t plan on cultivating it? Like any relationship, the more you get to know each other, the more you’ll connect on a personal and sexual level and that means visiting her as often as possible. You have to realize that others might be fighting for her attention too, so if you don’t show yourself often enough, she’ll quickly find someone who’s willing to pay more attention to her.

8. Move On If a Relationship Isn’t Working

You might come across someone you’re very attracted to and desperately want to connect with. But if after a few minutes of talking, you don’t feel a spark or much interest, it’s okay to move on and find someone else to chat with. You shouldn’t have to waste your time if you don’t feel comfortable or if you feel like you have nothing in common. As they say, there are plenty of fish in the sea and this certainly applies to cam sites.

9. Avoid Taking the Relationship Offline

It might be tempting to meet a cam girl in real life, but there are a few things you need to consider:

  • 99.9% of the time, the girls have no interest in meeting you offline. Period.
  • If she’s open to meeting, she may want something from you.
  • It eliminates the “safety” factor with camming. There’s always the risk of something going wrong.
  • Expectations can be high and it’ll almost never go how you’d expect it to, potentially damaging your friendship/relationship.

10. Explore Relationships With Different Girls

My final tip for you is to broaden your horizons. What I mean by that is you shouldn’t limit your experience to only one cam girl. Sure, it’s okay to like someone in particular, but cultivating multiple relationships ensures you’re experiencing everything a live cam site has to offer. At the same time, by chatting with different performers, all with their own unique interests and desires, you’re building confidence – and there’s never anything wrong with that.

And that’s all there is to it! Follow these tips and you’re guaranteed to have a successful relationship with the cam girl of your choice. If you have any questions, shoot me an email.

 
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